My New Favorite Song...

So I'm in love with the new B.O.B. song with Bruno Mars called "Nothin on You." It is so cute and it makes a girl feel good. I heard in at Haute in Los Angeles and I had to groove by myself cause it took me there. That's how all women should feel... like no one else has anything on you. Own your swag ladies. Don't be in competition with one another. Learn from one another in a healthy way. I'm so tired of being the chick that gets hated on in the club or at school, in the mall, minding my own business. If I see a girl with a great body, beautiful features, or a sick shoe game, I let her know.

For the Guys...

So I was in the gym today, working out with my baby sister and I was unbelievably frustrated with all the guys. Now, by no means am I conceded but I do know I am attractive to a certain extent. My problem is this... If you see me pick up some 45lbs weights do not ask me if I need help. Do not ask any woman if she needs help for that matter. If she can read and do the basics of math, she know what she is doing once she steps in the gym.

Now don't get me wrong, I look at men when I'm in the gym, in between reps, but I don't intrude on your workout to try and get some action. Some people go to the gym to pick up a mate or a work out buddy. I am not that girl. I am there to get my body in shape and stay physically fit. I am there for the real purpose of the gym. Most of us are. So here is the tip: If a woman has on a pretty nice fit that is body defining does not mean, "come and holler." Also, if she has a hat low and music blasting in her ears, she's not there for you. Admire from a distant and keep it pushing.

Cookies and Milk

So I'm home on my day off and I had an urge and a craving like no other. I wanted and need to feel the warm, moist, and satisfying taste of a big, thick, chocolate....chip cookie! But while I'm thinking of this cookie and preparing to do major damage to six beautiful chips, I started to think about my current situation...

Lets break it down. I was in a loving relationship things were up and down, then my life with my family went south. My man cheated, I attempted to leave. Now my baby sister is having a baby, family is still in turmoil, my best friend and I aren't even friends anymore. I want to scream and cry all at the same time but I can't. I feel like there is no point. Everything that is suppose to happen, will. Maybe I'm suppose to be alone with my puppy, my thoughts and my cookies, so I can give the world my milk.

It has to be worth something to be alone. And for everything to happen all at once. My situation with everyone is almost the same. Everyone wants to blame the other person for what they are NOT doing. They are letting the other person's lack-there-of be their reason for sub par behavior.

I'm not letting someone else's actions dictate what I want or how I behave. I don't have the time or the energy. I will keep doing what I need to do as far as work and family are concerned. Everything thing else is extra. And I'm the only one in the race, then this race is already won! I will eat my cookies and have milk too...